Is my roommate gay

Admittedly, it was unexpected and didn’t just whizz right past my head; I had to stop and think for a second because I’m religious, and when I considered the prospect of such a situation, I realized. But by telling them, you might be making a huge deal out of a small situation.

They want you to just allow them to live their life. He just wants you to not criticize him when he talks to a guy. Yes, you can be grateful. He plans to after I move in. Since going into lockdown, I've gotten closer with my straight roomie in ways neither of us imagined.

Even if I kept it from her, her finding out or telling her late in the game would be far worse than anything else. At all. Then he knows to stay away from you completely. We have so many wonderful memories and I love him dearly. When I contacted him, he told me that he was gay.

I've been trying to convince myself that the reason I like him so much is because he's so much like a girl, but I'm starting to accept that it's more than that. When I contacted him, he told me that he was gay. Once again, she would NOT handle it well. I really do.

I think I could room with him without an issue other than some disagreement , and I kind of want to because I empathize with people and I want to be their friends. He told you because you will be living with him. And if she does, I have a strong feeling she will begin by being very angry with me and my father for not telling her earlier, and will probably blow it out of proportion and make the beginning of college insanely stressful for me.

I’m about to begin my freshman year in college. My roommate is gay. If you are willing to be his friend, despite some differences, and you know your parents especially mom have a no-tolerance rule, you both could keep quiet about his sexuality. He could be scared to death of how you take it.

Just outright tell him. Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) people live with, and are friends with, people of many different identities. The school itself notified students of their roommate assignments just about a week ago. The fact that your roommate is gay needn't affect your relationship as roommates or friends.

It's obvious, and he's already told me. Exploring the blog "Need Help With Your Gay Roommate" from Harvest USA offers practical guidance for individuals seeking assistance in navigating living arrangements with a gay roommate. Over the last ten years, we’ve seen each other through a family crisis or two, break ups, unemployment the list goes on.

I know my roommate was freaking out when she told me she identifies as a lesbian. Columns “How Can I Tell My Roommate I Know He’s Gay?” “Matt” and I met the first week of college and have been close ever since. And second, try to move but make sure you tell him the exact reason.

My parents, though, will create an overwhelming and tense atmosphere for me and my mom especially may take things out of hand. The school itself notified students of their roommate assignments just about a week ago. Should I try and tell my mom before I move?

I can tell that once Pandora is out of the box, there will be nothing but trouble. I've told him that I'm % cool with it and glad to have him as a roommate. Should I switch if and when I can to avoid stressing out myself, my roommate, and my parents? He's very feminine, kind- just really nice.

As a grown woman, I really wish your mom could see that one bad experience of a homosexual does not equal bad experiences with every homosexual. Immediately I had a suspicion he was also gay because his housing questionnaire, which I could see when selecting him as a roommate during the housing application process, showed that he answered “very important” to the question “how important is a queer-inclusive roommate to you?”.

Learning to forgive and to let go is the most important thing and it is essential for a human being to grow.